Wedding Planning Resources for the Rule-Breaking Romantics!
Make it stand out.
This space is for the dreamers, the rule-breakers, the ones who want to celebrate their love their way.
Whether you're eloping on a cliff, dancing barefoot in a backyard, or throwing a warehouse party that doubles as a wedding, these resources are here to help you plan a day that feels like you.
No fluff. No pressure. Just practical tools and soulful inspiration for crafting a wedding that's anything but ordinary.
🖤 Blogs & Websites
Hello May – Aussie-based, full of real weddings that lean into individuality, creativity, and heartfelt vibes. A great place to find vendors who think outside the box.
Nouba – Edgy and modern wedding inspo with a strong focus on Australian weddings. Lots of DIY touches and unique ideas.
Rock n Roll Bride – A UK-based blog championing weddings that celebrate authenticity and personality over tradition. Think tattoos, technicolour gowns, and unapologetic love stories.
Wedshed – Venue directory and planning blog for weddings that break the rules. Lots of elopement-friendly spots and modern wedding planning tools.
Dancing With Her – LGBTQ+ inclusive wedding stories, planning advice, and community love. Beautiful, bold, and inclusive storytelling.
🎧 Podcasts
Unbridely – Hosted by a wedding celebrant, this podcast is all about ditching traditions and making your own rules when it comes to weddings.
The Secret Life of Weddings – Juicy, hilarious, sometimes chaotic behind-the-scenes stories from weddings that remind you perfection isn’t the goal.
Modern Love (NYT) – Not strictly wedding-related, but such a beautiful exploration of love in all its forms. Perfect for connecting to the why of your day.
🎥 YouTube & Video Content
Jamie Wolfer – Great for down-to-earth, anti-overwhelm wedding planning tips (US-based but still really helpful).
Kaitlyn Bristowe’s wedding planning series (on Instagram + YouTube) – Think DIY, real talk, and balancing tradition with personality.
Hitched in the Hunter (local shoutout) – Some local NSW venue and vendor features you might find handy when scouting locations.
📓 Extra Goodies
Google Docs / Notion wedding planning templates – Free and totally customisable. You can make your own timeline and checklist that doesn't follow the mainstream mold.
Zola’s Wedding Planning Checklist (adaptable) – Even though it’s US-based, it's a great starting point if you want to edit and turn it into a ‘your way’ version.
Pinterest – Still the go-to for visual inspiration, just... use it wisely. Don’t let the pressure get to you. Make boards that reflect your story, not someone else's.